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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • It’s a difficult communication style to emulate, especially when its not very compatible to your natural style.

    There is also a very real risk of it becoming very bad for your mental health to the point where you want to kys… because you can lose track of the real you while trying to chase acceptance from people who are inclined to reject you based on surface-level, emotionally-driven judgments.

    So here’s what you do. 99% of people you don’t want to put your energy into. You are searching for rare, high-quality individuals who make their relationship judgments based on character rather than persona.

    The rest aren’t worth your time. That’s not to imply they are worthless or bad people, but you will waste your energy and self esteem trying to build connections that wont work. Find the people who are actually awesome, you won’t need to fake anything.


  • Well, I think you’re saying those are things that you can’t do. And thats fine, but a lot if poeple need to take ownership of what they can do and figure out how to cooperate appropriately to get some things done.

    New leaders need to emerge thats true, but they will need support as well in various ways.

    But all those people will all have to take ownership for making this stop and figure out how to fight back.

    I get safety/security is a concern, but things are in a circumstance now where you will probably get fucked either way.

    As long as everyone keeps waiting for someone else to do something real, youre all screwed.