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Alternatively @marighost@lemmy.zip.

Formerly @marighost@lemm.ee.

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  • Not sure about Ubuntu, but for your CachyOS attempts, I probably would have avoided the DEs you tried. COSMIC is still under heavy development, and might work better on its “home OS” (being Pop!_OS, but this is complete speculation on my part). Hyprland and Niri seem like advanced DEs to me every time I see them mentioned, so I would have avoided them for a new user.

    I’ve been using Cachy for the better part of a year now with KDE Plasma and it’s barely given me any problems. I’d suggest something with KDE, or maybe even GNOME. If you like the Ubuntu environment (apt, flatpaks, etc) you might try Linux Mint. From my experience it’s a very easy and hands-off setup. I did not need to use the terminal at all when I set it up on my wife’s laptop and MIL’s laptop.

    ETA: Just read your final paragraph and wanted to add about KDE:

    Easy access to the launcher

    KDE is reminiscent of Windows. The Launcher is always visible (unless you tell it not to be).

    See all background apps at once (next to the network and audio icon)(important for VPN, steam, discord)

    Yup.

    see date and time in a convenient place (top of the screen)

    Yup. Can be placed wherever you want.

    working file manager

    Dolphin.

    good package manager

    CachyOS is based on Arch, so it used Pacman and ships with the Arch User Repo helper Paru (and a graphical installer, Octopi). You can easily install Flatpak if that’s your thing too. I don’t know a lot about package managers but Pacman has been good to me.






  • Based on not knowing what your system looks like (OS, DE, how you’re moving files, where you’re moving them, etc), the first place I’d try is getting Flat Seal from the flatpak app store. It’s a permissions manager for flatpaks that might help you out. If you’re trying to move files into a folder that has escalated permissions, it may give you some problems. Try fiddling with the settings in Flat Seal.

    I don’t really use flatpaks, so I couldn’t tell you exactly the setting to look at, sorry. Never had an issue with drag/drop myself.



  • put aside the idea that a beginner is dicking around with proxmox (why!?)

    Fun :)

    But seriously, I wanted to throw myself into it to see if I could learn it. I totally get the impulse to question a beginner’s choice for promox; I am questioning it too, frankly. I may follow your advice of restarting that server, but the thought of setting everything up again hurts my soul… At least I know how, though!

    Thanks for the kind response.



  • I can think of two stupid ones right off the top.

    In my highschool freshman year, in our multimedia & webpage design (a very barebones graphic design/learn how to use Microsoft Office class), I got in sent out of class for doing all of my work at home (I used GIMP and a pirated copy of Sony Vegas at home). That same teacher also gave me a long lecture about viruses for visiting downloadmoreram.com.

    In middle school, maybe 6th grade, we were split into groups to do some group project. Everyone was talking, working on their posters, chitchatting, normal kid stuff. For reasons I do not know, I had like sat down and shifted weird, and my throat made a strange, quite loud, involuntary noise. Kind of like a weird yelp? I did not mean to make this noise, but regardless, everything got super quiet, and the teacher asked “who yelled?” I stood up, explained that I did not yell, and accidentally made that noise. Teacher didn’t believe me and sent me to the office. I’m still confused about that one.