Fuck you, I’m not waiting longer than I need to. I’m doing DIY if my therapist doesn’t write me the letter, I’m not finding another one and wasting more months talking about worthless feelings just so they can maybe write me a letter when I could’ve started DIY and began the journey already.

I’ve seen people talk shit and try and argue that detransition rates are higher than they really are. They’ve used that to justify long wait times for HRT and transitioning. I just didn’t want people to give me the speech about how the wait is to make me sure so I don’t regret it and detransition. I know that won’t happen because I desperately want the changes, my flat chest gives me immense dysphoria.

I have no idea why or if my therapist is gatekeeping me, it could just be that she hasn’t written the letter yet, but I for one am not willing to wait more months for her to do so. The sooner I start the better.

I was never able to get a girlfriend, so I decided to become the girlfriend (I still really wish I had a girlfriend ☹️).

Superglue is way worse than wheatpaste, if wheatpaste is hard to remove, superglue is impossible without causing extensive surface damage, especially on plastic surfaces.

Get a superglue bottle with a brush and coat the surface in that before putting the sticker on it. It’ll make it a pain to remove and basically impossible without surface damage.

In the bathrooms of any red state or republican-leaning town.

I think a big part of it is just that many want control, they want to limit what we’re capable of doing. They especially don’t want us doing things that go against them and their will as companies. Which is why they try to block us from doing those things they dislike so much, like generating porn, or discussing violent content.

I noticed that certain prompts people used for the purpose of AI poisoning are now marked as against the terms of service on ChatGPT so the whole “control” thing doesn’t seem so crazy.

Well at first I never really thought I was, I like all manners of masculine things like shooter games, sports, fixing cars, getting dirty. Things that are largely considered manly. However I did like to hang out with girls more often, like I felt more comfortable around them. I never really questioned that much it felt normal. But I met someone a few months back who was very much like me, we shared a lot of interests and even had a similar style and when I learned she’s transfem it made me seriously start questioning. So I decided to have a little experiment and I asked her to call me by she/her pronouns to see how it felt, and I loved it. It felt so right, so true. A bit later I started to realize that I felt incomplete, my flat and empty chest made me feel discomfort and sadness.

That’s how I knew without a doubt that I was transfem, and every piece of trans literature I read including Gender Dysphoria Bible just cemented that in further.

Speaking from experience as a trans woman myself, the best advice I can give is follow your heart and do what makes you happy. I’d recommend finding some local trans communities where you live, and also getting a gender affirming therapist to talk to, these things have been helpful to me.

Good suggestion, I’ll probably get proper breast pads or inserts though. I’ve got the money for it.

been refining that for about a year now to reasonable success till i start hrt

What? You’ve been waiting more than a year for HRT 😔😭?!? I don’t want to wait a whole year to do it, especially since it might get harder to do it in the future.

That’s good to know. I guess I can still eat like that but just work out more so I stay in shape and don’t lose too much muscle. Also glad to hear that muscle loss isn’t immediate or complete, still not thrilled about losing any. I know that for some trans girls it’s something they hate and want gone but personally I want to be a very big and muscular girl since I’m going for the butch tomboy look, and also it’s nice to be strong.

I guess it’s good that I don’t have biochemical dysphoria, at least not that I know of, my dysphoria comes mainly from my lack of breasts.

I think a padded bra or inserts would probably help me. I don’t think eating more food to get fat will help me much when I’m on Estrogen cuz I work out a lot now, and I’ll be doing it more then so I don’t lose muscle mass as much, that’s one thing I don’t really want to happen when I’m on E.

That’s good to know, I’ll make sure to keep that in mind when I start HRT

I’ll look into getting some of those and trying to see if it looks good and/or makes me feel better. Thank you for the suggestion.

Oh thank you, I’ll definitely look into getting myself some of those. Will make sure to get a high quality one too. I imagine I’ll be wearing it almost all the time until I can grow my own natural ones.

Any suggestions of where I should look to buy them? Could I just look on Amazon or is there a specific brand or site I should be aware of?

She absolutely would 🩷 🏳️‍⚧️ 💪

I agree, even tho I may be biased.

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