…to expand on my stance, queer porn is most notably trans women with big dicks and equally large breasts, and there isn’t as much representation for other body types, let alone trans men.

That is really not true. I think you need better sources of porn.

EDIT: If you want porn with loving queer couples (or more), I recommend Lustery. It is all shot by the creators themselves, then purchase and edited by Lustery. Oddly, it can also be a great source of travel logs as some creators document their travels and finish off the episode with sex. I like those and often watch the travel bit and skip the sex.