• Flying Squid
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    -35 months ago

    I see, so you think my daughter has an incestuous relationship with me and she is at least half genetically defective.

    You would say that to a 14-year-old girl?

    And you called me the child abuser?

    • @Rekorse@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      This is why I accused you of bad faith. Never said any of that. Would be nice if you’d stop building straw men to attack.

      Is there a reason I should hide my opinions of her father from her? What abuse am I supposed to be levying here.

      You probably shouldn’t bring her into a conversation with adults if you don’t want her hearing others opinions of you.

      You know you and your daughter could both go your whole lives without that picture ever being a problem, and I’d still be against its existence right?

      So, what words are you going to put in my mouth next? Seems to be getting harder and harder for you to twist your opinion into fact.

      Here I’ll put it simply for you: I think the pictures you currently have are immoral to have taken, and immoral to keep now. I think your daughter is the victim of this. I dont know if she will ever be harmed by it, but the fact that she could is enough. I dont think I’m required to report you for having admitted having these pictures. I dont think anyone’s required to do anything based on simple comments on an anonymous forum. If you were in my community, and you asked how I felt about this, I would tell you all this to your face and hope that changed your mind, but past that I wouldn’t do anything probably more out of distrust of our legal system than anything though. If you think I’m awful for that, I’m okay with that. Maybe we are both awful people. Did I miss anything?

      Edit: oh I also think you can have CP and not be a pedophile. Like I said, that just makes you stupid.

      • Flying Squid
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        -25 months ago

        You said all of that. You said I had child porn of her, which means we had an incestuous relationship. You said I was stupid. Intelligence is hereditary, so you’re telling her that her genes are defective too.

        That’s what I think you’re awful for. Saying that you would tell that to a 14-year-old girl.

        • @Rekorse@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          45 months ago

          If that’s what those words mean to you and your daughter, sure but that’s not the same as me saying them. Those are all your ideas and I dont endorse a single one of them, nor would I say them to your daughter.

          Why do you think you can just change what words I say to be other more offensive words and then attack those?

          • Flying Squid
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            -25 months ago

            If you didn’t mean my daughter and I had an incestuous relationship when you said I have child porn of her, what did you mean?

            If you didn’t mean that half of my daughter’s genes were defective when you said I was of low intelligence, what did you mean?

            • @Rekorse@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              45 months ago

              Oh lord I should just drop this but here we go:

              1. I think you unintentionally abused your daughter by creating child porn of her.

              2. Without the intent of pedophilia you could just be ignorant, but since you are defending it actively, this makes you stupid.

              You are willfully ignorant, which is what I mean when I call people stupid or an idiot.

              If you really want to insist that number 1 there equals an incestuous relationship then sure I’ll bite the bullet on that one. I just don’t think its relevant because neither of you knew it at the time nor intended the situation to be incestuous. It was accidentally incestuous maybe, but that’s entirely your fault because you are the adult.

              Essentially, you were ignorant then and now your an idiot, but it was wrong the whole time.

              Does that make things clear?

              • Flying Squid
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                -25 months ago

                No. I don’t understand the concept of unintentional pornography. Can you find it used in some context outside of this conversation?

                • @Rekorse@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                  45 months ago

                  Accidental pornography = material that was not primarily made to be used as porn, and has later become porn.

                  Like the picture of your daughter that could very well have been used by pedophiles to pleasure themselves, or could be in the future.

                  Just say you don’t care about that possibility and I’ll concede, how about that.

                  • Flying Squid
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                    -25 months ago

                    Again, can you find this concept used in some context outside of this conversation?

                    If I masturbate to Michelangelo’s David, does that make Michelangelo’s David pornographic?