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Cake day: September 27th, 2025

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  • You sound paralyzed by the infinite possibilities behind you, and you’re worrying too much about the opportunity cost of how you spend your time. You do A, and then think about how you could have been doing B or C instead. But the truth is that at any given moment we can only do 1 thing, and as such are choosing not to do an infinite number of other things.

    So, my kind of existential answer is that only you can decide what you should and shouldn’t be doing.

    If having stuff and doing stuff brings meaning and adds value to your life, then do it. If chilling out and relaxing in comfort and good company is meaningful and valuable to you, then do that instead.

    In the end you will die, and after that, the death of the Earth, our star system, or galaxy and even the universe itself. We can interpret that fact to mean that nothing we do really matters, or we can interpret it to mean that anything we do is valid if we feel that is what we are driven to do.

    As long as you are being a good person and fulfilling your obligations to others, then you should recognize the power that comes with freedom over your life. Keep looking forward.










  • Most of the great philosophers in history didn’t have a degree in philosophy.

    Moreover, having a degree in philosophy doesn’t make you a philosophy expert any more than having a driver’s license makes you a driving expert.

    Don’t treat anyone as an authority, just be respectful of everyone regardless of whether you perceive them as being in a position of power or not.

    By the way, you have all of the agency in the world to make a different community, or even an entirely different server, if you feel that you don’t like how things are being run.