Evkob (they/them)

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Cake day: June 5th, 2023

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  • I’ve never had to deal with this, but my take is that you shouldn’t feel bad for not offering up information, especially in a context where you don’t necessarily feel safe to do so.

    I wouldn’t really consider this to be lying, either. Your bosses or coworkers don’t have a right to know you’re trans. Like, I don’t share my spiritual beliefs with anyone at work, for example. That doesn’t make me a liar. You’re entitled to your privacy, even more so when revealing something could be harmful for you.

    Best of luck navigating this, it sounds like a rather tricky situation to be in.




  • Part of me gets where they’re coming from, I think it’s definitely a thing where some inexperienced cyclists on e-bikes ride dangerously at high speeds without having the cycling experience and technique to ride that fast.

    However, just like I’ve had bad interactions with people on e-bikes, I’ve had bad interactions with roadies, people on BMX, cycle commuters, mountain bikers… I’ve also had super positive interactions with all of these groups. Generalizing e-bike riders as a whole based on the acts of a small number of people is silly and counter-productive. The more people ride bikes, the more cities have no choice but to accommodate them, which makes things better for everyone.




  • There’s apparently a plan for a rail-to-trail which would directly connect my city and the beach, which despite progressing at a snail’s pace has me really excited! It would be along some rivers and creeks in the forest, which I always dig.

    Currently, the options are either the highway (which I avoid unless at night because at least it has a shoulder) or the old route, which doesn’t have shoulders but doesn’t have too much traffic either, and most drivers are respectful. It’s a quite gorgeous ride too, going through fields and farmland. No lights and no shoulder are why I opt for the highway at night, though!