I’m not out to anyone but my spouse, and about 3-5 other people (3 for sure, two more if they have critical thinking skills since they were with us when I was in a skirt, tights, and wearing a trans pride necklace)

Honestly I don’t plan on coming out to my family, because this is exactly how it will go.

I’ll just let them figure it out over time I guess if I can start transitioning soon like I want.