Giving up expectations. Who am I to expect other people to conform to what I think/want? I’m being just like all the judgmental people I dislike so much when I have expectations. Also you can’t be disappointed if you didn’t have an expectation
it’s so true. other people don’t need to conform to your standard or wishes or priorities.
Expect people to act the way they act, even if that means they act shitty.
Accept the fact that most people will use you to compare themselves against to boost their own ego. They may look down on you for something out of your control, and it isn’t your responsibility to give a shit or fix that. Just do the job.
I can’t say I have many firends at work, I don’t. But my indifference makes me a boring target for bullies too. Throw shade at me, IDGAF, I know how (not) to value the opinions of others.
Giving up expectations. Who am I to expect other people to conform to what I think/want? I’m being just like all the judgmental people I dislike so much when I have expectations. Also you can’t be disappointed if you didn’t have an expectation
it’s so true. other people don’t need to conform to your standard or wishes or priorities. Expect people to act the way they act, even if that means they act shitty.
Accept the fact that most people will use you to compare themselves against to boost their own ego. They may look down on you for something out of your control, and it isn’t your responsibility to give a shit or fix that. Just do the job.
I can’t say I have many firends at work, I don’t. But my indifference makes me a boring target for bullies too. Throw shade at me, IDGAF, I know how (not) to value the opinions of others.