• Rekorse@sh.itjust.works
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    7 days ago

    Then don’t be pissed off when managers schedule those with more free time more often, or call them in more often.

    Its also hilarious to assume every childbirth is intentional.

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      7 days ago

      Its also hilarious to assume every childbirth is intentional.

      It’s part of the sexism that is barely under the surface of childfree communities. Harder to punish women for their life choices if they have to think about the many reasons one may find themselves burdened with a child.

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          7 days ago

          They are doing something wrong if they think their kids bullshit is more important than whatever I have going on on my days off. My time is as valuable as theirs.

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            7 days ago

            Nobody claimed that time off with their children were more important than your time off for your fitness session.

            You were just the one who accepted the shift because you can move your fitness session. Your flexibility works in your favor, because you’re also the one getting paid for the hours that you decided to work.

            You can say no to extra work for no reason. You do not have to make up excuses for not working extra. It is not your boss’s job to evaluate which lie is more worthy of not working in their free time.

            If your boss ask why you can’t cover a shift outside of schedule, just call it what it is: None of his business.

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              7 days ago

              Nobody claimed that time off with their children were more important than your time off for your fitness session.

              Bullshit. Everywhere I’ve ever worked has had people demanding their holiday PTO days get approved over others because they don’t have anyone to take care of their kids.

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                7 days ago

                So what’s the alternative?

                Should the boss order them to work on days where they’re clearly not going to show up because it would also be illegal for them to leave a child without care?

                Family beats work.

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                  7 days ago

                  Yeah? Fire their asses and get someone who will show up to their shifts when they’re scheduled.

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                    7 days ago

                    Or… Hear me out… You could learn to say no to extra work yourself.

                    Force the employer to hire the adequate number of employees to cover the shifts that they want covered. That’s what their fucking job is. Don’t do it for them by being a pushover.

                    Don’t blame the parents for doing what you should be doing.

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            Parents think their kid’s bullshit is more important than their own job, not yours. That’s why they aren’t clocking in for their own job that day.

            It’s your employers fault for calling you in on a day off and your fault for accepting it.

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              7 days ago

              I’ve never come in on one of my days off. I’m talking about getting PTO approved and having to argue about it while someone is getting preference because they should be allowed to spend time with their family or some shit.