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My fiancé and I both were on the same page about how stupid it is. So I got her a lab grown alexandrite ring, and she is in love with it.
Car getting devaluated after buy it’s a total scam!!! I’d love to go there, let me feel the steering wheel and say “hmmm what? Dude, I just touched the steer, that devaluated the car, why are you selling to me as new??”
Show cars are sold with a discount.
Nice. Didn’t knew that.
What board has posts like this nowadays? I was on the chans a few weeks back and it was basically all brain rot and fascism.
I don’t really know about posts like this, but the only board I occasionally go on these days is DIY. Still riddled with brain rot and fascism, but some of the 3d printing and sewing threads are interesting imo
One of the ideas I had years ago was to get an uncut puck of lab diamond, (at the time this was ~$1500 from one place, probably cheaper now) find a lapidary and get them to cut out a literal diamond ring, a ring made entirely of solid diamond, and then my spouse could say ‘That’s not a diamond ring. This is a diamond ring.’ in a cheesy Aussie accent.
White sapphire is even cheaper than moissanite and most people don’t know any better. It’s a little less durable than diamond but looks a lot like a natural diamond. My wife cared more about the look than the actual pricetag, so I got what looks like thousands of dollars worth of ring for less than 10% of that. She’s clumsy, so if she bumps into something and the stone pops out and gets lost, no big deal.
Discuss with your partner. Do not try to trick them by getting them a diamond alternative and then telling them it’s a diamond. A reasonable partner (imo) would rather put some of that money towards the wedding and/or marriage itself rather than into a ring. Get the wedding menu you really want or put it towards a house down payment or new furniture or something.
So don’t buy one. My girlfriend’s will be getting one of those rings made of tungsten. Have you seen them they look amazing. It’s simultaneously looks like something some elvish jewellery merchant made while at the same time looking like it made also activate the halo rings.
A diamond is just shiny.
Of course it’s important to discuss these things with your partner in advance. Whether or not they would be happy with a non-diamond ring depends very much on the person. But it might be worth advocating for them because they look really nice and they are quite expensive but they’re honestly more interesting than the diamond and ethically sourced. There’s no such thing as blood tungsten.
looks like something some elvish jewellery merchant made
Worked at a jewelers for a while years ago. If that’s the vibe you’re going for I’d suggest a moss agate:
If your finger swells up inside a tungsten ring, EMT’s cannot cut through it with their normal tools. They have to use a high speed grinding tool. You or your loved one will not enjoy this procedure.
Don’t get tungsten rings.
A dremel won’t work on tungsten rings?
They make them with break points now.
Did a jeweler tell you that so they could sell you something expensive? Tungsten rings are hard but brittle. They can be broken with a pair of vise grips, just like stone rings.
Nah, I’ve never bought pricey jewelry. Just a thing I have seen several times online. That’s how you know it’s true.
Anyway, if that’s the case, good to know, thanks.
I wear a tungsten band. Always have to take it off before the gym or manual labor. I was told “in an emergency they can’t cut the ring so they may have to cut the finger”. It’s cool though, I barely use that one and I have like 9 others.
Check with your partner and see what kind of ring they want for their engagement.
I went to the jewelry store with my partner and shopped for her engagement ring. Ended up doing a custom piece with a rose-gold band and a couple of blue topaz gems. She wanted a ring that would fit comfortably under exam gloves (she worked in a lab at the time). She’s much happier with it than a big heavy pointy rock, and it was way cheaper (like 450 for the whole ring).
On that note, I find diamonds to be the most boring gemstone. Any of the ones with colour are far more interesting to me, I don’t get why anyone would want to pay more for diamonds (outside of their industrial purposes) even if they were actually rarer.
I’m going the custom route as well I just think if you give them something custom it’s so much more meaningful than just going and buying something that was merely expensive.
Also with a really expensive diamond ring you never want to wear it because you always worried it’s going to get stolen.
If it loses 50-80% of the value as soon as it’s used, might as well get a used one if you must have a natural diamond. This also applies to cars and plenty of other things. Let someone with more money than you take the hit.
Pretty sure a used engagement ring is worse than lab grown in the eyes of the unwashed masses.
Used means cursed, it failed once and will fail again. As if the mined materials have any effect in a relationship.
Now you just tell people that it was stolen from a murder victim. But it’s alright because they had a really long life together before that happened. Then it’s okay.
Unfortunately the murderer was their significant other.
Lab grown emeralds are a couple hundred bucks and are way prettier than diamonds.
My wife has a Tanzanite engagement ring and loves talking about it
IMO it’s kind of romantic Tanzanite only comes from one single place.
Moissanite is an excellent diamond alternative if you want a clear stone. Cheaper, just as resilient, and sparkly as fuck.
Yup, it’s even what they use in their displays because they sparkle more than a diamond.
No I’m pretty sure that’s just so if there’s a robbery they aren’t stealing the good stuff.
Just like the pancake syrup they pour over the pancakes in the TV commercial (it used to be motor oil).
Or the milk they put in the cereal (it used to be thinned out Elmer’s glue)
My wife’s engagement ring is an emerald, I don’t think it was lab grown but it was way cheaper then a diamond and looks easy better then a piece of “glass”
My friend works with lab grown crystals and there re ones like lutetium aluminium garnet doped with cerium (LuAG:Ce) and similar which look awesome
I wonder if there’s anyone interested creating lab diamonds that have imperfections that essentially become indistinguishable from the mined ones. There wouldn’t be any money in it, but they could theoretically crash the blood diamond market.
Its already happened, its why big diamond cartels etch symbols into diamonds. They literally can’t tell the difference anymore.
Its not super common for them to do that as its at least unethical and illegal in some places. Plus unless your literally trying to counterfeit, why would you want a flawed diamond?
I just looked them up, they’re almost like kryptonite, or TV Uranium. That’s so cool
There is one type of natural diamond that doesn’t lose its value. Those are mine cut diamonds. They haven’t cut them at the mines since before the cartels took over. I found this out one day, because my GF would wear her late grandmother’s wedding and engagement bands. We got curious one day, and wandered into the fancy jewelry story in the mall. I said to the guy, “I know you can’t give us an official appraisal, but could you take a look and give us a ballpark.” He slipped the loupe on and took a look. Immediately he said something like, “Oh, wow! Haven’t seen one of these before.” He explained that all 20 of the ¼ carat diamonds and the large 2 carat diamond were all mine cut, so the engagement band could have fetched $100,000 and the wedding band was worth about $250,0000 in 2000 dollars.
Needless to say, she stopped wearing it frequently after she found out.
The obvious answer is to buy a large synthetic one. It’s still real.
Nah, get a moissanite, it is more brilliant, and because it is used as high voltage SiCfets it is way cheaper.
Yeah sure, I’ll consider that if and when monogamy ever becomes any sort of option for me.
But disregarding me, personally, you can see quite how there’s a bit of manipulation going on if you’re pretending that the visual is “real”, right?
Rings are socially relevant demarcations of sexual availability. Diamonds are just shiny rocks. Frankly, rings with any stones in them piss me off. They catch on your clothes and rip your favorite fucking sweater, and it’s laundry day so you can’t even grab something else because your other clothes are soaked in vomit because projectile vomiting all over a crowd is the most reasonable course of action when you’re a dumb asshole dicking around on a balcony on new years, apparently.
Well this reply certainly took a turn! Especially since NYE was 9+ months ago. Woman have had sex that night, and given birth since then. And you still haven’t done laundry yet???
Dude.
Don’t tell me how to live my life.
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You can have well made rings with stones that don’t catch on fabrics
Source: I make rings
Got my wife a Moissanite ring, it’s even shinyer than diamonds and way cheaper, i love being with a practical woman <3
Moissanite gang rise up
Not doubting what you’re saying (because I’ve heard it many times already) but that picture looks misleading because of the different light hitting each stone. These marketing tricks are so obvious that at this point they can even make the truth look like a lie.
The rainbow light in the graphic looks cheesy, but that is what the visual difference between the two rocks looks like
Yea sure man, but why is your comparison a rainbow being shat on the supposedly superior stone while the other gets a dull monotone?
Mine is moissy too, I picked it out, would have been pissed if my now husband wasted a car’s worth of money to get the equivalent diamond, and wanted a solitaire, and I like this stone better.
No it doesn’t get scratched up, as I am not scratching at it with a diamond. It’s very hard.
Isn’t it much softer too? Ie, it’ll be all scratched to hell by day to day wear?
Nah Moissanite is still one of the hardest materials on earth at 9.5 on the mohs scale. Ain’t shit gonna scratch that
Ah nice good to know.
Diamonds are really hard but there’s other things that are pretty much up there. Unless you’re planning on repeatedly punching sharpened graphite spikes with no gloves on wear isn’t really a problem.
You might be thinking of cubic zirconium, which is another replacement for diamond. That one is softer, but my understanding is that it’s still quite difficult to scratch
Dang a lot of diamond haters in the comments! I would never buy a mined diamond for the ethical concerns but I think lab grown diamonds are worth the price. Moissanite is really pretty but it does throw more colors which may not be to everyone’s taste. Diamonds have a really clean white sparkle. And the price difference between the two is not as big as it used to be apparently.
To me diamond looks like a piece of glass. Sure it’s more durable but I think the existence of modern glass ruined any visual uniqueness diamond had.
Then the things like Swarovski crystals just entirely destroyed any remaining appeal.
