• @daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    12 hours ago

    Most people social life didn’t really change during the pandemic, thus the pandemic.

    I remember my neighbors, whose mother was a cancer patient, would still had family meetups for diner all weeks.

    • @UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      Most people social life didn’t really change during the pandemic

      Honestly, I think I got more social during the pandemic. All the neighbors would meet out on the driveways, desperate for something to do other than staring at a screen all day. The parks were full from people who weren’t constantly traveling for work or fun. Kids and parents alike were out and about because they didn’t need to waste time commuting.

      Everyone slathered themselves in hand sanitizer and do all the pro-forma things to not be a contagion risk. But at a certain point, when you’re already out in the 'burbs… We’ve been “socially distanced” since White Flight in the 1980s.

    • @Eq0@literature.cafe
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      12 hours ago

      On the other hand, I see the lasting effects isolation did to social skills in kids and teenagers…

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        Yeah fucked up my kids senior year. Didn’t even get to walk across the aisle or have prom. Fucked up. He had just finished a theater project when Covid took hold. Sucked he really enjoy it and had potential. All taken away.

      • @shawn1122@sh.itjust.works
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        48 hours ago

        How much of that is modern tech and social media? I’d argue the Gen Z xoome meeting blank stare can be blamed as much on tech as the pandemic. This is the first generation that grew up living as much online as they do in the “real world”

        • @UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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          21 hour ago

          This is the first generation that grew up living as much online as they do in the “real world”

          Idk about that. The internet was already heavily adopted by the mid-00s. Millennials are as online as any generation after them. Hell, the Boomers are the most terminally online. Facebook hit the Olds like crack hit the inner cities.

          GenZ might be the first generation that’s self-aware enough to notice how fucked it all is. They’re the ones gagging on the excess of social media and AI slop, which older generations seem to be swallowing placidly.

        • @Eq0@literature.cafe
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          38 hours ago

          I think, a lot. The shift during the pandemic of requesting uniquely online presence definitely sped up a trend that could already be detected. And because it was unprecedented, “adults” weren’t able to guide younger ones along the transition.

        • @idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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          I definitely became less domesticated during the pandemic and I’m still not where I was beforehand, socially. I was even in my late twenties when the pandemic hit, so I should be less susceptible than teenagers/younger children were. It was worth it not to kill a bunch of people by spreading disease, but it wasn’t easy.

          That said, I also lived alone and went over 8 months without seeing another person in the flesh, which is unlikely to be the case for younger people.

        • I would guess most people socialize less as the get older. Having kids and constantly drowning in work and household obligations will kill your social life real quick.

          • @shawn1122@sh.itjust.works
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            Depends on what type of socialization you’re referring to. Socializing with coworkers and other parents through your kids activities is not uncommon.