• @Tire@lemmy.ml
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      -69 days ago

      That’s the words in the title but not what the article actually says what happened.

      • @Darleys_Brew@lemmy.ml
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        179 days ago

        Says that she had to show her breasts or leave. Are you really going to argue the difference in this and “forced”?

        • @webadict@lemmy.world
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          179 days ago

          Slaves weren’t forced to work! They clearly had a choice to not work and be harmed or killed, as well!

        • @Tire@lemmy.ml
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          -49 days ago

          “Mudra said she felt she had to prove to the server that she is a woman, so she unzipped her hoodie to show she has breasts.” No one said “show them or leave”.

          • @dustyData@lemmy.world
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            69 days ago

            When she went to the restroom, a server followed her inside and banged on the stall door while saying: “This is a women’s restroom. The man needs to get out of here,”

            Right after your quote:

            The server didn’t say anything in response but left the restroom

            Yes, I’m completely sure she wasn’t forced to prove her gender. To accuse others of not reading the article, while actively not reading the article is certainly a move.

          • @Darleys_Brew@lemmy.ml
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            Nope. They just said “leave” this woman felt that the only way to be able to stay and have a piss was to show her chest.

        • @Demdaru@lemmy.world
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          -109 days ago

          Not OP but I am, dammit. “Leave” is not the same as “piss yourself” or anything like - there is no consequence of any kind tied to it, so what is exactly being forceful here? Shit, the girl could just verbally assault the idiot and then leave. No forcing here, stop it, situation is already awful, no reason to add fantasy to it.

          • @Triasha@lemmy.world
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            99 days ago

            Not being able to use the bathroom is being forced to leave the premises.

            This is no different than having whites only restaraunt.

            • @Demdaru@lemmy.world
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              -29 days ago

              Being forced to leave the premises is not being forced to flash breasts. And as I said, situation is terrible, no need to add sexual predation fantasy to it

              • @Mr_Dr_Oink@lemmy.world
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                39 days ago

                You really don’t get it?

                She wasn’t forced to flash her breasts. (I mean wrong choice of words as flash implies nudity, which isn’t what happened). she was forced to have someone berate her because they thought she was a man. What right did that server have to follow someone into a bathroom and declare they are a man and need to leave? What proof did the server have?

                The bottom line is you are the one sexualising this. She didnt flash, she unzipped her hoodie to show that there were breasts under her shirt. The issue is she shouldnt have to have done that to get that server to leave her alone. What alternative did she have? And dont say she could leave because thats bullshit. She doesn’t have to leave. The server needed to leave.

      • flandish
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        09 days ago

        you’re either being a thick troll or are a fucking idiot.

        • @Tire@lemmy.ml
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          -69 days ago

          “Mudra said she felt she had to prove to the server that she is a woman, so she unzipped her hoodie to show she has breasts.” No one said “show them or leave”.

          • flandish
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            59 days ago

            “felt she had to prove” / the young woman was accosted in a private place and after TELLING THE PREDATOR TO LEAVE, the predator REPEATED the demands.

            you’re a fucking monster if you can’t see through this. go fuck yourself.